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This week, today, I will as promised, talk about women.
I’m sure we’ve all been looking towards this; Wondering if I would do a better job here yeah? I would do my best. If you aren’t satisfied, Please don’t hesitate to join in this conversation o.. It certainly isn’t private. How was your weekend? Hope it went well? I had in mind to have a quiet weekend but it turned out to be something else. Goes to show that MAN PROPOSES GOD DISPOSES.
Which brings me to this pending conversation:WHY ARE WOMEN FASTIDIOUS IN AN OH SO NEGATIVE WAY? WHY WOULD YOU NOT LIVE AND LET LIFE? What I mean? A lady sees and guy and in a week she decides that this man must be ‘her husband’, her conviction of course would be unfounded.You want to see that which obviously isn’t. Making you turn in to this pathetic, needy , inferiority complex ridden woman all for A MAN. Just 1 man. He wasn’t there when you were born, you didn’t know him, he didn’t contribute to your existence in any way and then suddenly, for the wrong unhealthy reasons, you ‘can’t live without him’. The pity of the situation is that he doesn’t even care one bit about you and you sit there…. Pining…. SMH….. Pathetic.
Do you know what men want?
Have you ever taken a guy or two as case studies? Do you really pay attention when men are relaxed and are having an easy conversation with each other about women? Do you pay attention to women when they sit to discuss their experiences? You know what happens to a lot of us? We think: ‘It can’t happen to me’ ‘ He’s so different, he’d never do that to me, I’m not that stupid’. Women don’t learn from other peoples experience, they like to have their own experience and when they do, they wallow in self pity and expect the whole world to bath you with reassuring words- Please, it happens, will always happen and may have helped you to in the long run…
Yes I said it! Don’t cling, don’t be too needy, don’t crowd or cage him.. He already knows you’re good in wifely duties so don’t over emphasize it.. He was eating before you came along,He had clean clothes and dressed smart when you met him,I mean that was one of the things you noticed yes? Don’t start doing his laundry PLEASE!Live life as you were before you both met. Don’t be tied to the hip with him until he virtually indicates otherwise(not just in words, but deeds by taking you to the altar AND signing the dotted lines!).
Everyone one needs someone to be there for them at one point or another, but please ladies, women don’t insinuate yourself into every situation your man finds himself.. Let him work it out and even if you could have been of help, try and control yourself.
I’m not saying some men aren’t worth the stress but even the best of them all can still be ‘kept’ if you played by the ‘sane’ rule.
You noticed when a man’s distant and you try to play ‘mummy, sister, friend, lover, confidant’ all in one? Give it a break! He wants his space! Same as you can give the ‘distant’ treatment! Guys love it when women give them the cold shoulder, show them strength ,resolve and independence.
Why would you want to compare your man with someone’s? That is so low and primitive. Why would you want to own a man? That smells of inferiority complex from a mile off and that is so uncool. As women take men who love them too much and show it for granted, that also applies to the men.
I would ask why women would stoop so low to fight for a man in his presence? Making him feel that he is so special or that he is the center of attraction? God’s gift to women? He isn’t and you’re really silly for thinking and doing that. Who wants to know? Regardless of the countless times you fight for him, he’d leave you if he so desires so why make the effort at all? Guys already know what they want and have made the decision and no matter how indecisive they may seem, he’s just fooling you; he’s made his choice.
Don’t make a done deal an easy job;
Don’t belittle yourself for a man even if you feel you’ve nothing;
Don’t make any man any more special than he already is;
Please never make a man the center of your universe.
Just appreciate them for the joy and comfort they can give you and learn from their inadequacies. Study men, tag them then you’ve got no obvious or unwarranted problems.
I made series of mistakes in this writeup but I have corrected them.. I was in a huge hurry.I love you all so very much.
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hahahaha…I cant stop laughing at the annoyance I sense in ur writing…its like you have onehand on ur hip and another holding a cane…Good job here….u hit nail on head.I like this: ''…but even the best of them all can still be 'kept' if you played by the 'sane' rule.'….even though you and I know that love is insane.Meanwhile I dont understand this line: ''I would ask why women would stoop so low to FIND for a man in his presence? Making him feel that he is so special or the center of attraction? He isn't and you're really silly for doing that. Who wants to know? Regardless of the countless times you FIND for him,….''what does 'find' in this contect refer to?
@ nitty, i think she meant "fend"nice article girl.so through..dont make him special than he already is..but then women want to feel special when they meet their man..so i guess the same rules applyoverall, very good write up
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!I Rushed here at the title of the post,and enjoyed every inch of reading right through to the end!!!!But Girl…..such emotion!!!!!Yeah,this is waytoocuteforyou!!!
ChaCha, Talk true, some people offend you? lolI like the latter part of the rant though – "Don't make a done deal an easy job"That to me is the summary of it all. If he is that into you, it's not that difficult… He'd be yours.- LDP
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Being the emotional women we are, sometimes we forget these things so please forgive us eh? Nice writing…
Myne pointed out one of our biggest gifts and curses…emotions. Although I sense that you're talking about the type of woman who falls head over heels for guys who don't give them the time of day. I hear ya, we need to embrace confidence and share/love/do for those who respect us. Good points, lady!
First of all, I want to apologise for the grammatical/typographical errors on this post. I have made the necessary corrections..@NuttyJ.. Lol.. Like you know dear.. What I meant was 'fight' You can go back and do some reading.. How you?@Diamond.. Thanks dear.. I'm glad that you like..@ T-Notes.. I so know the posts that you'd eat up! Bad boi! You didn't rush o, when you saw 'MEN'How you dear? Still having fun?@LDP.. my faraway friend.. Yeah, you had it pegged right dear.. @Konfirmed.. Hmmm.. Will do.. @Myne.. Yes, Ma'am, I know.. But sometimes, reason+emotion is better.. The mistakes are better managed.. I'm glad you like.. @CuryGurl.. I always love when you soften/broaden my views.. lol..
hahahahahahahha. i could feel the vex in ur spirit.
i think u r still talking about men…
*sigh* women, wats d world without emhow u doing?
@Fragilelooks… Lol.. No vex o.. really.. @Kay9.. Naaa, I wasn't. Seriously..@LG…Abi? Lol.. I'm good love and you?
@LG.. I need a funny post from you soon o.. really..
lol, na vex you take write this post, and finally, its still pointing at men sha! i love the words your wrote. It speaks volumes. its just never as easy to do as it is being said. We women are just some emotional kind of people.
LOL@2cute!!Yayy,i'm alright n most def,fun is compulsory!!!!But abeg,take am easy o!!!
@ Jobsfornaija.. I know.. Still, glad you like.@T-Notes… Taking it easy o.. Shayo master, remain small fun for me o..
interesting
Yes o, tell them!Interesting post, missy.
Thank you for your comment on my blog. Nice blog here, taking my time to read. God bless
lol…nice one
It is a pity, that now I can not express – I am late for a meeting. I will return – I will necessarily express the opinion on this question.
Nice one,Every young lady needs to see this.It soudns like some rant though.Good points.ALthough I must admit God made women 'the caring' part.We just want to 'mummy' everyone.but there must be a balance.Cheers!
@Zoe.. Thanks!@NaijaLines.. Lol.. Nice.. I'm glad you approve.@Anonymous.. Waiting..@Olufunke.. Point taken my dear.. Hope you're okay?Take care