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Life’s got loads of roads which lead to paths and turns that can either make or unmake you.
Either way, the final decision is yours. The choice to either swim or drown is for you and you ALONE to decide. In whatever we choose to embark upon,are involved in,working on,believe in; just STAND FIRM knowing that the inner strength in you that would define who you are and shape your destiny lies deep within.
I’ve got this post to men, if it offends your sensibilities, well, TOO BAD!No apologies. It’s the questions as they emerge that we should ponder on whilst the replies would be appreciated. Men (as a gender) amaze me! I wish there was a course/study in college termed “the study or the male species as it affects the female folk” or something of that sort and I’m sure that a lot of ladies would gladly enroll for the course or study.
I wonder if there’s anything wrong with you all upstairs and I’m being candid in asking that question.
If women have changed over time from our previous belief and perception of the values and ideals attached to them,MEN are solely to blame because there’s a limit to human endurance and tolerance.
Why in God’s name would you profess to love a women when you can’t stand her but just the part of her anatomy which favours you? Why would you promise marriage when you have no intention of fulfilling the promise? I wonder how you were created to be so heartless and then you scream when your pill is served you by a woman.. Who gave you that right? Tit for tat I’d say!
Consider if you were told by some lady,who cause she’s comfortable financially, kicks you out saying you’re there for her money and what you can get from her; How would you feel? So why would you assume that every lady is they for your stupid little money?
Why would you think that you’re ‘OH SO SPECIAL? ‘ Who in the blazing heck do you think you are? If you were God I wonder what would happen to the ladies.. Hasn’t it occurred to you that you should worship the female folk and all that they stand for? We are that special.
Having the guts to lay your hands on a woman with the intention to cause harm, you’re the worst fool and the weakest man alive! Yet, you expect her to lie on your behalf that it happened to her in some other way..
I got nothing to say to men that sponge off women, and yet dominate and degrade them, that is the meanest trait men posses and yet they are so good in hiding it…
The evils that men do abound
The pains women go through caused by them is unendless and heratwrenching
Yet like women are, they still hope for the better
Some have given up hope
Some have become like men themselves
Some have become bitter
Some have vowed to deal with men
What ever way you choose to go from here, just know, you have that strength to do better and making the right choices makes you a better person..
Next post would be on WOMEN!
How’s everyone? I trust good? I love you all so very much..
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I think I'll wait until I see what you have to say about the womenfolk…
hummm but Women are just as evil! lol.
Who don vex you now???Men I hope you can hear.???My dear, I bet you they will read this and still wont know how to act right…..mscheeeeeewGood Post
Well said but cool down sha…LOL
Oh dear, what's got you so riled up? Take it easy – deep breath -Will be back to read the next post.
No vex abeg, such is life. None of us is perfect.
Na wa oh. E be like say you really carry vex write this post oh! Good one girl!
No vex…Us to we have our own wahala
Ouch! Glad some escape these trifling habits….some
LWKMD…. Babe, babe, pipe down small naw, lol… Oya, who's the olori-buruku that stirred up your hormones into such a frenzy, mmh? Don't mind him, he's just an idjit.Yeah, some men can be ass-wipes, true, but same goes for some women too; its not a disease peculiar to males. You just have to know who's good/bad for you; that's what adulthood is all about.Now, whadyasay to some candy?
LOL @ Y'all.. I had to take the stance to project what women feel.. Not necessarily me.. I assumed the heart of a woman who's been hurt and dealt with..
@2cute4uYour blog name, "free answers to your questions"I bet the abusive meant you are talking about mi9n this post sure don't like any type of "free advice"!*lol*How funny,"Who in the blazing heck do you think you are? If you were God I wonder what would happen to the ladies?"Now that is funny!
Men, women…not that different from one another. But life goes on…
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@ Solomon.. Lol.. Get your drift.. How you?@ Blogoratti… It does.. But at whose expense? At what cost?
is dis directed @ a paricular man or….. all men, newyaz wats life life without em
*how u doin??
In reply to your question, here's are a few questions for you..Why must men chase women? Why do we spend days, months even years trying to get the attention of some woman who just wants to see how far you'd go before sense jam youThen why after you finally start dating her must she decide she has to change everything about you to suit her needs.If men are from mars, women are from venus dear.
@ LG.. It wasn't directed at any man in particular dear.. I'm doing good, thank you so much for asking.. How you? @Anonymous..Well, now you're answering my questions dear.. WHY MUST MEN CHASE WOMEN? Simple..: WE ARE WORTH THE WHOLE STRESS!Do you know what a women in love can do for you?How far she can go for you? Aside that, a woman deserves all the love and attention she's showered, it's her God given due dear.CHANGING YOU TO SUIT HER NEEDS? Yes. Sweetheart, every man does it to his woman, so why shouldn't we? Come on now, surely, you can't complain over that, can you?Lol@ the last.. You flung them to venus I'd say..
Well dear, no one ever argued you weren't worth the stress, I'm sure you must be, as is every other woman there is, but then you must remember the issue with things you chase… Sooner than later it becomes a game.And like all games, you soon loose the objective and start playing just for the fun of it. Pretty soon, you get good at it and start playing to win. Then you get addicted to winning and so the rules go out the window and thats what you see happening.Why must men chase women? No reason, women just enjoy being chased, that simple. A womans worth doesn't come from how many men chase her, but from what she adds to a relationship and makes her man feel. End of story.And about changing people, my dear, thats a whole lot of hurt you openning up, because it simply means you don't like what you have and feel you can make it better. And when you make someone feel that way, my dear don't expect the best from him….PS, madam, where i go get power throw person past gravitational field, I be NASA?
lol…nne calm down.no one is perfect, including us women.there are boys and there are men.
LOL!! tell us how you really feel, 2cute4u!! …nne no get HBP, it's the world we live in. I can't wait to see how you will address, as someone else said, the 'womenfolk'
@Anonymous..Nice one.. But a woman (sometimes)needs time to consider if you're truly the one she's been looking for you know? And if in that space of time it becomes a game to the guy then it goes to show that men are just not it more often than not.Time and again a woman shows her worth in a relationship and really where does it get her? In hell I'd say! And as for the issue of not like who you choose.. you got it the wrong way, if she didn't want you, she wouldn't roll with you.. As in the words of a blogger, FUNMS-THE-REBIRTH) she wants to make you her perfect person. Still, not like she wouldn't accept you either way okay?@Leggy.lol.. nwannem, adim calm o.. Just merely stating the obvious.yes, we should do that- separate the boys from the men..@Repressed One…I'm sure you're having sweet fun and just you wait till I get on the case of women.
My dear, do you know how many times a guy gets shot down by the same girl all in a bid to get her attention? Talkless of how many women shot him down constantly? If you were looking for job and kept getting rejections (something the nigerian graduate is used to) you don't think at some point your outlook would change? Or that it wouldn't affect you adversely?Again please, you know how far a man would go for the woman he loves? Didn't Jacob work 14 years for woman? Besides a man already thinks you perfect the way you are and is just appreciative to have you with him. If una wan make him perfect, doesn't that go to show una no dey satisfied?
babe wassup? who wan pull ur strings? neways the menfolk feel same abt us too. thanks for being there
@ Anonymous.. Lol.. You should read the part on women.. @Fragilelooks.. Dearie.. How you? Hope you good? You should read the part about women… Call you soon.
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