This week, today, I will as promised, talk about women.
I’m sure we’ve all been looking towards this; Wondering if I would do a better job here yeah? I would do my best. If you aren’t satisfied, Please don’t hesitate to join in this conversation o.. It certainly isn’t private. How was your weekend? Hope it went well? I had in mind to have a quiet weekend but it turned out to be something else. Goes to show that MAN PROPOSES GOD DISPOSES.
Which brings me to this pending conversation:WHY ARE WOMEN FASTIDIOUS IN AN OH SO NEGATIVE WAY? WHY WOULD YOU NOT LIVE AND LET LIFE? What I mean? A lady sees and guy and in a week she decides that this man must be ‘her husband’, her conviction of course would be unfounded.You want to see that which obviously isn’t. Making you turn in to this pathetic, needy , inferiority complex ridden woman all for A MAN. Just 1 man. He wasn’t there when you were born, you didn’t know him, he didn’t contribute to your existence in any way and then suddenly, for the wrong unhealthy reasons, you ‘can’t live without him’. The pity of the situation is that he doesn’t even care one bit about you and you sit there…. Pining…. SMH….. Pathetic.
Do you know what men want?
Have you ever taken a guy or two as case studies? Do you really pay attention when men are relaxed and are having an easy conversation with each other about women? Do you pay attention to women when they sit to discuss their experiences? You know what happens to a lot of us? We think: ‘It can’t happen to me’ ‘ He’s so different, he’d never do that to me, I’m not that stupid’. Women don’t learn from other peoples experience, they like to have their own experience and when they do, they wallow in self pity and expect the whole world to bath you with reassuring words- Please, it happens, will always happen and may have helped you to in the long run…
Yes I said it! Don’t cling, don’t be too needy, don’t crowd or cage him.. He already knows you’re good in wifely duties so don’t over emphasize it.. He was eating before you came along,He had clean clothes and dressed smart when you met him,I mean that was one of the things you noticed yes? Don’t start doing his laundry PLEASE!Live life as you were before you both met. Don’t be tied to the hip with him until he virtually indicates otherwise(not just in words, but deeds by taking you to the altar AND signing the dotted lines!).
Everyone one needs someone to be there for them at one point or another, but please ladies, women don’t insinuate yourself into every situation your man finds himself.. Let him work it out and even if you could have been of help, try and control yourself.
I’m not saying some men aren’t worth the stress but even the best of them all can still be ‘kept’ if you played by the ‘sane’ rule.
You noticed when a man’s distant and you try to play ‘mummy, sister, friend, lover, confidant’ all in one? Give it a break! He wants his space! Same as you can give the ‘distant’ treatment! Guys love it when women give them the cold shoulder, show them strength ,resolve and independence.
Why would you want to compare your man with someone’s? That is so low and primitive. Why would you want to own a man? That smells of inferiority complex from a mile off and that is so uncool. As women take men who love them too much and show it for granted, that also applies to the men.
I would ask why women would stoop so low to fight for a man in his presence? Making him feel that he is so special or that he is the center of attraction? God’s gift to women? He isn’t and you’re really silly for thinking and doing that. Who wants to know? Regardless of the countless times you fight for him, he’d leave you if he so desires so why make the effort at all? Guys already know what they want and have made the decision and no matter how indecisive they may seem, he’s just fooling you; he’s made his choice.
Don’t make a done deal an easy job;
Don’t belittle yourself for a man even if you feel you’ve nothing;
Don’t make any man any more special than he already is;
Please never make a man the center of your universe.
Just appreciate them for the joy and comfort they can give you and learn from their inadequacies. Study men, tag them then you’ve got no obvious or unwarranted problems.
I made series of mistakes in this writeup but I have corrected them.. I was in a huge hurry.I love you all so very much.